The Handshake

The post-series handshake is one of hockey’s greatest traditions—a moment that transcends the scoreboard. It’s a symbol of respect, sportsmanship, and the intensity of the game, carrying a legacy that predates the NHL itself.

As Matt Stephen of The Hockey Writers explains:
 

"The handshake itself dates back to the 5th century BC and is believed to have been popularized as a gesture of peace, signifying that you had no weapons. It's no wonder then that the handshake ritual is one that hockey came by naturally, not by any league-wide implementation."

This tradition endures because hockey is more than just a game—it’s a battle of skill, endurance, and heart.
 

Why the Handshake Matters
 

Hockey players push themselves to the limit through four grueling rounds of playoffs, with each series lasting up to seven games. The emotional highs and lows, the exhaustion, the sacrifices—fans can see it, but only those on the ice truly understand what it takes.

That’s why, no matter how ecstatic or heartbroken they are, players and coaches come together at the end to shake hands. It’s more than a formality—it’s a reminder that respect and honour define this sport.

The handshake symbolizes character. It proves that, even after the hardest-fought battles, hockey players recognize the effort and dedication of their opponents. That’s what makes hockey different.
 

Building Character Through Coaching
 

As a coach, you have the power to shape young athletes—not just in skill, but in sportsmanship. Every time a player puts on their hockey equipment, they carry a responsibility: to compete with passion, but also with respect.

That’s why, at CoachThem, we believe that coaching goes beyond the X’s and O’s. Yes, we provide tools like a practice planning app, mobile coaching tools, and custom drills for hockey, soccer, and lacrosse—but the true goal is developing athletes who play with integrity.

With CoachThem’s coaching platform, you can instill structure and accountability in your team. Whether you’re using our hockey coaching drills, lacrosse team coaching tools, or soccer training plans, the focus should always be on growth, discipline, and respect for the game.
 

It’s More Than Just a Game
 

As you coach your team, remember that winning isn’t everything. What truly matters is teaching players how to handle victory with humility and loss with grace.

A handshake at the end of a game isn’t just a tradition—it’s a reflection of character. And that’s something every coach should strive to build, one practice plan, one drill, and one lesson at a time.
 

(image: Bruce Bennett/Getty Images) (main image : The Boston Globe)

 

Congratulations to the 2017 Stanley Cup winners, the Pittsburgh Penguins.
 

 

Written by the CoachThem Team

 

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